Addressing the “praise deficit”: young workers putting a strain on organizations and organizations are responding inappropriately

June 24th, 2009 by Sam Smith

One of the things that has always interested me is how generational dynamics affect organizational behavior and effectiveness. As I wrote a few weeks ago, companies across the US are flying headlong toward a massive macro-succession pile-up, and the collective personality of the Millennial Generation (born from ~1980-2000) is going to play a major part in mid-management breakdowns in the next few years.

If you’d like a glimpse of the stress the Millennials are already exerting on organizations, you’ll want to read this analysis from the Wall Street Journal’s CareerJournal.com site. In it, Jeffrey Zaslow chronicles how businesses are addressing the Mills’ excessive need for praise:

Employers are dishing out kudos to workers for little more than showing up. Corporations including Lands’ End and Bank of America are hiring consultants to teach managers how to compliment employees using email, prize packages and public displays of appreciation. The 1,000-employee Scooter Store Inc., a power-wheelchair and scooter firm in New Braunfels, Texas, has a staff “celebrations assistant” whose job it is to throw confetti — 25 pounds a week — at employees. She also passes out 100 to 500 celebratory helium balloons a week. The Container Store Inc. estimates that one of its 4,000 employees receives praise every 20 seconds, through such efforts as its “Celebration Voice Mailboxes.”

I could go on forever about the causes for this cohort’s rampant need for attaboys (and in my past life as a consultant I did just that for my clients who were looking to more effectively work with and market to them), but ultimately it boils down to the fact that they were raised in an era where self-esteem was unhitched from accomplishment. It was assumed that if you instilled a kid with a strong self-image, then he or she would be able to ride that confidence to success.

There’s no question that companies like Land’s End and BoA need to teach their managers to more effectively handle younger workers. But what I’m reading here leads me to conclude that these organizations are making a couple significant mistakes, and in the process are assuring that the problems they face will worsen over time.

The first issue is that throwing confetti and handing out gold stars just for showing up is, at best, slapping a band-aid on a sucking chest wound. The theory was that self-esteem assured accomplishment, but we now have ample reason to doubt that conclusion. Millennials demand recognition, but that recognition doesn’t improve performance - it merely reinforces their right to demand recognition. Want some evidence? Review the CareerJournal article in detail - you’re being told about the successes of handing out the attaboys, but where are you told about how those attaboys are driving improved performance?

You’d think that’s the sort of thing a Wall Street Journal article would mention if it were a reality, wouldn’t you?

At the risk of using an inflammatory analogy, you don’t treat a drug addiction by giving the patient more drugs, and that’s what blank praise programs are if they’re executed in a vacuum.

Which brings me to the second issue - what are these companies doing to assess and address the actual skills deficits that we know the Millennial cohort suffers from? It’s a generation with a number of tremendous strengths, but it lacks in a couple areas that are key to business success (and essential to the cultivation of the next generation of management). Most notably, they’re not strong critical thinkers, as a group, and they lack the problem-solving expertise of the three previous generations. They’re very good at working in teams to achieve clearly defined, short-term goals, but when faced with challenges they haven’t been explicitly trained how to manage, those who teach and manage them say they can “go limp.” Additionally, their highly-touted technical savvy is significantly overrated.

What should be emerging is a picture of companies that are reinforcing unwanted behaviors (my former clients lamented how much of their once-productive time was being devoted to massaging egos and managing emotional drama) while taking no steps toward developing the kinds of skills and capabilities that are going to be essential to their ability to compete in the next decade.

Instead of handing Boomer and Xer managers confetti quotas, American businesses need to be arming them with hard training in understanding the Millennial personality so that the demands of cultivating critical performance and management capabilities can be productively hitched to the process of creating a workplace that motivates and rewards all employees. These are good young workers with tremendous potential, and if they fail to reach that potential it will be the fault of the Baby Boomers and Xers in charge of developing them.

Millennials need to hear praise - we all do - but underneath it all they’re smart enough to know when the praise is empty. Nothing, on the other hand, jacks them up quite like being praised for an actual accomplishment.

This is where companies need to be heading, and unfortunately many aren’t.

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One Response to “Addressing the “praise deficit”: young workers putting a strain on organizations and organizations are responding inappropriately”

  1. JHL says:

    DANGER! DANGER WILL ROBINSON!!
    There is a danger lurking, and I think that Dr. Smith has hit the nail on the head.

    I see this first-hand with the way that my kids are being educated in elem. and middle school.
    It is AMAZINGLY sad. And the awful fact is is that the teachers/principals/supers KNOW they are rewarding behavior, not achievement, and yet don’t know how to change it. Thus, the more the kids are praised, the MORE they misbehave. It’s a terrible cycle. So kids get good grades because they behave (if you behave, you get more time to finish - or teachers will help you more/give you the answers), not because they are able to think, solve problems, create.

    An excellent article! It should be required reading for EVERYONE in EVERY type of business.

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